Most of them guys are quick to judge women: “That Anita chick is loose, 3 boyfriends in 1 year!”. “I still can’t believe it, my girlfriend just told me she has slept with 8 guys. I can’t believe she’s so cheap! She is not a wife-material!”
But have we ever stopped to look at the world through their own eyes? The Indians used to say, don’t judge a man until you walk a mile in his moccasins (Lol, some funny dude added; so that you’ll be a mile away, and have their shoes grin).
The average looking girl, in her prime, gets offered sex a million times more than the richest, sexiest dudes ever would.
Most good looking girls get wooed and offered sex, every single day. It could be very subtle, like when the guy offers to give her a lift in his car, compliments her on the new hair. Or blatantly makes his intentions known.
Let’s say she get’s 5 random wooing a day for one year, that translates to the frightening figure of 365 X 5 = 1,825! times in just ONE year. And then, there’s the next year, and the next year and the next year…
Lord knows that if girls woo a guy like that on a daily basis, he will become useless, won’t ever go to work again. And Rough Rider, Durex and Gold Circle will all give him a combined Platinum VIP Card.
To make the matter worse, these men come bearing gifts. Bribes. Tempting, Hard-to-resist, Mouth-watering bribes. Money, phones, clothes, exotic trips, jewellery and comfort – in all it’s devilishly disarming forms.
Sincerely, I am yet to meet any guy that can withstand the onslaught of temptation, the barrage of inducement that our girls have to deal with EVERY SINGLE DAY. Yet we feel we are on a moral high-ground and have the right to judge them.
Truth be told, If most guys stood to gain even the smallest of material benefits from being Intimate, they would all line the streets at night in body-hugging micro clothing!
Our society encourages women to dress sexy & feel sexy but at the same time strongly disapproves of them expressing it to the full. It’s really unfair the societal pressure we mount on them to conform to our ‘ideal’ and repress their most natural desires. Our fellow human beings who possess the same powerful drives that we do.
Is it not the height of hypocrisy. You sleeping with any available living thing that moves. And then turning around to judge women for being picky, showing discipline and resisting temptation.
Maybe she once had a one-night stand, so what? Maybe she once slept with someone for money, so what? Maybe she had 10 boyfriends, so??
If you look at it closely, The guys are actually the real sluts. The hypocritical sluts. The Sadducees and Pharisees.
Now, if you were a girl, from the bottom of your heart, do you think you could ever be half as good??
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